Technologic

     People using phones at the wrong time. A second-grade student has its own iPhone 5. A sixth grade complaining about "why love is ridiculously hurting me" in a social networking site. A 13-year old girl calling another girl a "slut" for flinging with her boyfriend. An 11-year old girl bursting out to tears just because her crush didn't like her recent posts. A 15-year old grumbles where the heck he could he find his forever. An 18-year old  gets hundreds of likes just because of her cleafie (a selfie emphasizing a cleavage).

     Hi guys, welcome to the 21st Century. I bet this is not what you're expecting from the past few years, but all of the statements written above are the saddening truth. Flying cars, robots, advanced technologies, clean environment, high-definition holograms are some of the things I'm expecting (you too, aren't you?) in this generation, but it failed me, you, and all of us here. Different kinds of pollutions, improper garbage disposal, corrupt government officials, high crime rates are just some of the major problems of the world. See the gap of our expectations to the reality? Well, we need to deal with it.

     People using phones at the wrong time. I can't understand why most of the time, people are taking pictures of themselves on events or somebody's special occasion. I'm not saying that taking selfies or groupies is prohibited at any kind of parties, but most of the time, it ends up ignoring the main purpose of that certain event. For example, your friend hosted her birthday party inviting only special people to her heart and luckily, you're one of them. At the party, your other friend surprises the birthday celebrant by handing her the birthday cake and the whole room goes like "Oh boy, this is it, let me take a pic of you and your fab cake," or "Lemme take a twinnie with you!". Come on guys, it is somebody's birthday and it looks pretty rude at any angle because most of you are focusing on their own new status update and not on the birthday celebrant itself. Another example. When people are going to have a dinner at a fancy restaurant and then the food is served. Instead of praying, some of us are taking out their phones and capturing the food and updating their IGs or Twitter accounts. If we're only on the 80's, I guess I would be slapped so hard in the face when I do that.
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     A second-grade student has its own iPhone 5. Probably, I'm playing with Legos or my collection of Hot Wheels and stabbing my Barbie dolls at that age. I would be playing outdoor games with my playmates, reading my textbooks (just in case we would have a test the next day), SLEEPING or practicing to write very fast. In my opinion, kids at these age shouldn't be given these kind of gadgets because if you will, you're not helping them. You're just giving the kid a reason to ruin his/her life at a very young age. She may be socializing, but not in the original way like playing pogs, hopscotch and other games. It's like you're taking his/her life away by giving him/her that kind of destructive material.

     A sixth grade complaining about "why love is ridiculously hurting me" in a social networking site. See how the Internet opens the mind of many children all over the world? They should've been prioritizing their grades... and it's not yet the right time to know about love, in a deeper way. They're just stressing themselves out, they're overreacting things (like "It's not crush anymore, it's probably LOVE"), they're drifting away their focus on their schooling. I still remember when I was still in Grade 6, me and my classmates are really focused on our studies because our grades will determine if we could get our certificate and jump in to high school or REPEAT. We've been busy for our rehearsals for our graduation day and many other things were happening that we didn't even give a single crap about that "love" thingy. 

     A 13-year old girl calling another girl a "slut" for flinging with her boyfriend. For Pete's sake. A 13 year-old girl having a boyfriend? Yeah, it's common nowadays. Plus the fact that a 13-year old mouths "slut" to everybody that would fling with her boyfriend... and in that kind of situation, this girl will go to a social networking site and then rant out all of her emotions there and when she's done, she'll be feeling great because she got attention of the whole world. Why rant out there? You can create your own diary. Personalize it and keep all your secrets there. Just make sure you have a lock or keep it very well. You won't annoy people with your dramas and you'll improve your writing skills! If you don't like putting up a diary, why won't you tell the problem to your parents? They'll give you the perfect advice and you just engaged a open forum in your family. You won't feel guilty because they know what you're doing... unless you hide it from them. If you feel uneasy telling your parents, then your BFFs can rescue you. They'll give you nice advice (especially when there's someone who is matured, the flow of conversation will be smooth.) Don't rant in the Internet. It's like you're stripping in front of the whole world. Another reminder, don't tell other people your weaknesses because they might use it against you, so keep your secrets with yourself and if you'll be sharing your problems, take note that if you tell your problems to 3 or more people, you do not want help. You want ATTENTION. If you are, then it's like the same when you rant out in a site. Anyway, I'm just curious how these teenagers manage to be in a relationship while being busy in school and if their parents know about the things they've been going through.

     An 11-year old girl bursting out to tears just because her crush didn't like her recent posts. My goodness. Instead of locking up your door and crying up all night, why wouldn't you try to answer your homework in Science or help your Mom to prepare dinner? It's not the end of the world if he didn't like your posts. Either he don't like you or he really doesn't like you. So just choose among those choices. LOL. But if get his attention well congratulations. Job well done.

     A 15-year old grumbles where the heck he could he find his forever. Let the love find you. You're in 9th grade and I bet the algebra lessons are getting tougher... so choose if you will find your lover first or save your grade for the better. You're still young to open your mind to these kind of things. Oh look, we're not gonna live here forever, so good luck if you insist to find your forever. True love will come along in your way if you're matured enough and you can handle serious relationships. However, if you have your "forever", just don't take things seriously. Perhaps you think you're in love, but believe me. It's just puppy love. Don't push yourself to your limitations or else you'll say hello to a younger version of you after nine months. (if you now what I mean.)

     An 18-year old  gets hundreds of likes just because of her CLEAFIE (a selfie emphasizing a cleavage). Shout out to the famewhores out there! This paragraph is for you. To be famous you need to be good-looking first. (If you aren't, you may fill your current selfie with lots of effects.) Then you need to have a very nice figure and sassy clothes that people could see your cleavage (because it is an attraction to likers) or extremely short skirts or shorts that people could see your undies and butt. Insert a non-sense quote to that cleafie to sum it all up then wait. Easy right? Why wouldn't you try to be more challenging? That is to be decent enough to be firm to stand with your dignity. If you'll post selfies / groupies, make sure you're wearing decent clothes because many youths are using the Internet and they may see your p*rn star outfit and you might influence them to be like you. The only reason that these kind of social climbers go online is because they want to gain a huge number of likes and ATTENTION. They like to show the whole world their body and let others fantasize it. Even though there's plenty of good reasons to take a selfie, we shouldn't abuse it or be too extreme.

    If you got hit on my statements above, then if the shoe fits in, feel free to wear it.

Kärlek ♥

     Growing up I always thought true love was red roses, dates on Saturday nights, little block box that held expensive things and always knowing what to say. I thought true love was a kiss under the rain, deep explanations, and the perfect story. But now, that I'm older, I've realized it's not like that at all.
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     See because true love for me is ugly snapchats and peeing while you're on the phone. True love is kissing at 6 AM despite the morning breath and singing at the top of your lungs. It's saying all the wrong things at all the wrong moments. It's sarcasm and being honest even when it HURTS. It's late hours of the night when it's been a long day and it's no make up and bad hair. It's tears from laughter, it's tears from sadness and it's nothing like any storybook you've ever read. It's never running out of things to talk about, and it's being comfortable in the silence of things. True love is watching The Titanic though you swore you never would. It's getting mad over stupid things. It's "you're an idiot," and "come here you 'lil shit!" and knowing you're so lucky to hear those everyday. It's spilling your fillings at 4 AM when you should be asleep. It's that song you hear on the radio that always makes you smile. It's the worst story you could imagine, but thank God it worked out anyways. True love is never losing the magic. True love is not leaving when things get hard.

     I like my definition better anyways.

Complimenting Ladies?

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          She sees how her stomach looks when she's standing in her bra. She sees how her face looks without any make-up on. She sees how her chin looks when she looks down at her reflection. She sees how her arms sag when she has them up. She sees how her thighs jiggle when she walks or runs. She sees how her acne looks when she washes her face. She sees how her boobs look when she's wearing a top. She sees how her legs look when she looks at all of her scars. She sees how her hair looks when she wakes up in the morning. She sees how her wrinkles show when she smiles. She is guilty whenever when he hit people when she's on her period. She sees how her stretch marks are visible when she sits down.  See, the thing about us girls, we can see every little detail about ourselves, details that other people can't see and we see every little flaw that other people don't even notice. So when a girl doesn't accept your compliments about her being beautiful, it's honestly because she feels like she isn't and she'd be lying if she said she was.